The Supreme Court of the United States ruled today that the Constitution guarantees a nationwide right to same-sex marriage. The redefinition of marriage according to civil law does not change the understanding of marriage in our faith tradition. The position of our Church is that marriage is a natural institution that predates any government.
We acknowledge that the experience of same-sex attraction is a reality that calls for respect, compassion, and sensitivity. However, we believe that marriage by its true nature remains the union of one man and one woman. The sexual difference between male and female is essential for marriage. Man and woman were designed by God in relation with one another, and only man and woman can form a physical union with one another that brings forth children.
Only a man can be a father, and only a woman can be a mother. A child should not be deliberately or intentionally deprived of either one.
Today’s Supreme Court decision will lead to many conflicts between the state and religious institutions and individuals. Through the centuries, those who have attempted to live their lives in a way that is consistent with their faith in God have always faced struggles. There is always a price to pay in being true to one’s conscience. In these matters regarding the true nature of marriage, those of us who disagree with this Supreme Court decision will sometimes have to pay a heavy price.
The Catholic Church will not perform same-sex marriages or promote them in any way. We will continue to teach the beliefs that have been passed on to us from Scripture and Christian tradition. Throughout all of this, we must resist any temptation to hatred, scorn, or violence. We must speak the truth as we understand it in our conscience, and we must always speak the truth in love.
While these fundamental differences of worldview can be deeply painful in families, communities, and nations, I believe it is possible to dwell together peacefully in a society alongside those with whom we agree to disagree.
For more information about Catholic teaching on the true nature of marriage, please see this website: www.marriageuniqueforareason.org.